I know I've changed since high school because...

[chicating]

I told one of the "funny" Fetterman bashers with both ableism and CAPS-LOCK as crosses to bear that making his dad scream was so much more fun than our conversation.(Or maybe that's who I'd have been in high school too if I'd known how little the permanent record counted for anything!)
Would almost rate the quest for "middle-class" respectabiliy as another condition to overcome, more than a goal to ponder