chicating

Not that useful...I have just as many reasons for my MC to remain single as to couple her up--my ambivalence is definitely showing...not really about this could be a book, though, as I'm still trying to outline stuff. Sometimes wish I could be just another blonde writer-lady, even though it's red right now, so I could just decide for my characters without feeling like I was making some sub-cultural statement. One time I said on twitter that finding love while disabled seemed like a kind of miracle(and it still does, not only because of access and social acceptance, but because of how hard it can be to find someone who might understand you on a deep level AND might want you to touch their naughty bits.) In my experience, still not super-thick on the ground. But the ladies on twitter? All young enough(and without John Munch as their patronus enough) to speak their wildest dreams and call it "Putting It Out in the Universe"--which I used to try, though it wasn't the putting out that spoke to me strongest.
sigh. another group that found me momentarily horrible...