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  <title>chicating</title>
  <subtitle>chicating</subtitle>
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  <updated>2023-12-15T17:44:52Z</updated>
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    <title>It's Hard To Have Fun Virtually...</title>
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    <content type="html">but that's not the only thing that made last night's trivia night such a fizzle. I think it is soft ableism that everything was timed...I'm sure they didn't mean to leave me out, but they did all the same. Providing at least one answer to the "Why don't I seek out more local things?" question.  Because it's like that, more than it isn't.&lt;br /&gt;Wish I hadn't been looking forward to it for a week.&lt;br /&gt;Oh, well, now I won't have to feel bad that I didn't finish the fundraising part.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=chicating&amp;ditemid=57048" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <title>I know I've changed since high school because...</title>
    <published>2022-11-25T18:00:38Z</published>
    <updated>2022-11-25T18:00:38Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">I told one of the "funny" Fetterman bashers with both ableism and CAPS-LOCK as crosses to bear that making his dad scream was so much more fun than our conversation.(Or maybe that's who I'd have been in high school too if I'd known how little the permanent record counted for anything!)&lt;br /&gt;Would almost rate the quest for "middle-class" respectabiliy as another condition to overcome, more than a goal to ponder&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=chicating&amp;ditemid=6150" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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    <title>So much "funny" ableism...</title>
    <published>2022-11-16T00:25:59Z</published>
    <updated>2022-11-16T00:25:59Z</updated>
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    <content type="html">spare me.(I don't even think I'm that sensitive anymore and have probably laughed at some things which I wouldn't have if I'd known the fucking depth of the ignorance the quips sprang from&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=chicating&amp;ditemid=4060" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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